I will start with birth of a child, Mother loves her child. Even though if it kicks, it will do piss on her new sari, baby will cry in the midnight. I dont know now love doesn't have realistic meaning. Let me tell from ancient days, man has to do job for his family and he has to take care of his family. Woman has to sit inside the house, she has to take care of her children, family and home.
Is this the reason is affecting our society, woman came out from house. She is standing equally with man in all the fields.Assume if it is then will it be alright if we keep woman's in home only.
No ! my answer. She has to come outside, but she should not leave all the qualities what earlier women's have. If we keep discussing this matter with educated girls. They will never give up their attitudes.
Due to some media or the medium, boys and girls are becoming mature in the early stage of 13 years. They need time to understand the progress in their body. When they will attain change or when they understood they will be in 12 th class.
Extra energy creates chemical reaction in the body that we call it as infatuation. He or she will get attracted by opp gender. Nowadays same gender also possible. The thing is people are giving the name Love to that relation, it is not. Love is different and infatuation is different.
There is no pure love, if it is there then it will stop at some point. Young people are giving their life due to love. I heard many cases, no girl is injured by love (mentally or physically). God has given special power to girls to forget the things very fast. Also they will tolerate above their level. That keeps girls away from the effect.
In case of Boys it is not, They will think if I love a girl, is it possible for me to take care of her through out the life. Not in all case I am saying about pure love, not road romeo'o love who will change daily one girl. Coming back to the real love,after deciding all the things he will think girl is suitable for me and my family or not. People are there they will see in different way only.Love means two souls has to be combined. But in tis case if the girl cheats means if she get married to another one. She will be happy with new Husband. But the boy has to suffer. Girls tolerating capacity will save them. Boy will think to get her even after her marriage, if he is not true lover.
for above example I am discussing mainly if girls cheats. Because If the boy is ready they he will do anything to get her. the most girls will get due to some forces, some conditions. Let her choose her life partner she is having right. But Knowing all the things doing love is big mistake. If it is th condition then why in earlier stage they will not explain.
Totally love became commercial.,.
Above mentioned are my views not my principles. Nor my attitude.,.
mpshridhar
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